The other morning, Nic and I were on our usual walk talking about getting an Apple Watch for our son for Christmas. Not because we want him to have a phone yet—he’s too young—but because a watch would let us know where he is and give him a way to send us a quick message when he needs us.

Simple enough, right?

Nic had been researching options, and Verizon kept coming up as a contender. They were offering upgrades for our phones and existing watch if we signed on. The deal looked good on paper.

He connected with a sales rep on chat to finalize the offer.

Everything seemed fine until the end of the conversation when the rep mentioned there would be “additional fees” added to the total. Nic asked what those fees were—a completely reasonable question when you’re about to sign a contract and commit to monthly payments.

The sales rep said he didn’t know. The system calculated them automatically.

When Nic pushed back and asked if he could find out what the fees actually were before signing, the rep got annoyed. Then came the pressure tactic: “Well, if you don’t sign today, you’ll lose this deal.”

And just like that, that Verizon sales rep lost the sale.

Not because the deal was bad. Not because we couldn’t afford it. But because they destroyed trust at the exact moment they should have been building it.

That conversation sparked a bigger one between us about marketing versus sales—and why so many businesses are getting this wrong.

The Difference Between Marketing and Sales (And Why It Matters)

Here’s why I’m sharing this, because most people don’t realize if you do good marketing, you barely need a sales team (or rep) at all.

Good marketing isn’t about pushing people toward a decision they’re not ready to make. It’s about building trust so thoroughly that by the time someone talks to you, they’re already more than halfway to yes.

Sales, especially aggressive sales, is what happens when marketing fails. It’s the scramble to close a deal with someone who isn’t quite convinced yet. It’s pressure tactics, hidden information, and manufactured urgency.

And increasingly, it doesn’t work.

A 2024 study by PwC found that 82% of consumers want more human interaction as technology improves—but they want genuine human connection, not manipulative sales tactics. They want transparency. They want to feel understood. They want to trust that you have their best interests in mind.

That’s good marketing.

Why AI Isn’t Replacing Sales Jobs (Yet)

It’s interesting timing for this conversation because there’s been a lot of talk about AI taking over jobs—an on our walk Nic and I discussed how I was a surprised more sales roles haven’t been eliminated yet.

Not because salespeople aren’t valuable, but because the need for traditional sales disappears when your marketing is strong enough.

Research shows that AI is changing sales jobs, not replacing them. AI can automate lead scoring, data analysis, and initial outreach. It can handle the repetitive tasks that used to eat up a salesperson’s day.

But it can’t build trust. It can’t read emotional cues in a conversation. It can’t negotiate complex deals that require genuine human understanding.

What AI is doing is exposing the companies that relied on high-pressure sales tactics instead of solid marketing foundations. Because when your marketing truly connects with your ideal clients—when they already trust you before they ever talk to you—you don’t need aggressive closing tactics.

You need good people who can have honest conversations and help clients make the right decision.

The Verizon Problem: When Sales Quotas Destroy Trust

Let’s go back to that Verizon sales rep for a minute.

I have no doubt that sales rep was under pressure. There were probably quotas to hit. Bonuses tied to closing deals that day. Metrics tracking every conversation.

And those pressures turned what should have been a helpful conversation into a trust-destroying experience.

When Nic asked a simple question—”What are these fees?”—the answer should have been straightforward transparency. Instead, the rep either genuinely didn’t know (which is a training problem) or didn’t want to say (which is a trust problem). Either way, it sent the same message: We’re hiding something.

Then the urgency tactic—”Sign now or lose the deal”—confirmed every suspicion. Because that’s not how companies that trust their value operate. That’s how companies that know their offer won’t stand up to scrutiny operate.

Sales quotas and commission structures can turn perfectly reasonable people into desperate closers. And desperate closers throw red flags.

Good marketing eliminates that desperation because the people who show up are already pre-qualified, already trusting, already ready to buy—they just need clarity on next steps.

This Isn’t Just About Corporations—It’s About Government Too

The same dynamic plays out at the highest levels.

Look at government trust in America right now. According to recent data, only 22% of Americans trust the government, and only 15% believe the government is transparent.

Why? Because governments (like businesses) often fail at the basics of good marketing: Know your audience, communicate honestly with them, and follow through on what you promise.

A government official gets elected on specific messaging—a clear brand, a consistent voice, promises that resonate with their ideal “customers” (voters). But then, like many politicians do, they change the script. Promises aren’t kept. Actions don’t align with messaging. Transparency disappears when inconvenient questions are asked.

And just like with Verizon, trust evaporates.

The best “marketing” any government (or business) can do is simple: Be honest about who you are, what you stand for, and what people can expect from you. Then actually deliver on that. Every single touchpoint should reinforce trust, not erode it. And, if some people don’t like what you stand for, that’s okay. You aren’t meant for everyone, and everyone isn’t meant for you.

When there’s a gap between marketing promises and actual delivery—or worse, when transparency vanishes at critical moments—people notice. And they stop trusting you.

What This Means for Your Small Business Website

So what does all this have to do with your website?

Everything.

Your website is the foundation of your marketing. It’s where people go to decide whether they trust you enough to reach out.

And here’s the thing most small business owners don’t realize: Your website is either doing the work of building trust, or it’s creating the need for a sales team to answer questions and close the deal.

If your website clearly speaks to your ideal client’s pain points, answers their questions before they ask, demonstrates your expertise, and makes them feel understood—you’ve done 80% of the work before you ever talk to them.

But if your website is vague, generic, confusing, or fails to address the real concerns people have? Then you’re starting every conversation from a position of having to convince rather than confirm.

That’s the difference between marketing and sales.

Your Website Should Answer the Questions They’re Afraid to Ask

Remember how the Verizon rep wouldn’t (or couldn’t) explain the fees? That moment destroyed trust.

Your website should do the opposite. It should proactively address the questions your ideal clients are asking themselves at 11pm when they’re researching:

• “How much does this actually cost?”
• “What if I don’t like what they create?”
• “How long will this take?”
• “What if I’ve had bad experiences before?”
• “How involved will I need to be?”
• “Are there any extra fees, if so, what are they?”

When you answer these questions openly—when you’re transparent even about the hard stuff—you build trust before the conversation even starts, and that’s your basis for good marketing.

This is exactly why I keep talking about FAQ pages, knowing your ideal client deeply, and creating content that speaks directly to real concerns. These aren’t just SEO tactics—they’re trust-building strategies that eliminate the need for high-pressure sales.

Your Brand Creates the Feeling Before You Say a Word

Think about the last time you landed on a website and immediately felt either “Yes, this is for me” or “This isn’t right.”

That instant gut reaction? That’s brand.

Your brand—the look, the vibe, the voice, the consistency across every touchpoint—either builds trust immediately or creates skepticism.

Good brand design isn’t about looking pretty (though that doesn’t hurt). It’s about creating an immediate feeling of “These people understand me. They’re professional. They’re trustworthy. I’m in the right place.”

When your brand does that work upfront, you’re not starting from zero when someone reaches out. You’re starting from a foundation of trust. And a good brand is the foundation of good marketing.

Consistency Across Every Touchpoint

Here’s where a lot of businesses fall apart: inconsistency.

Your website says one thing. Your sales conversation says another. Your follow-up email has a different tone. Your social media feels like a completely different company.

The businesses that win are the ones where every touchpoint reinforces the same message:

• We understand you
• We’re honest about what we can and can’t do
• We’re here to help you make the right decision, even if that’s not working with us
• We’ll be transparent about pricing, process, and what to expect
• We’ll follow through on what we promise

When your website, your brand, your conversations, and your delivery all align? That’s when you don’t need aggressive sales. That’s when people come to you ready to say yes.

Good Marketing Is Harder Than Good Sales

Here’s the uncomfortable truth: Building good marketing is significantly harder than learning sales tactics.

Sales tactics can be taught in a weekend workshop. Apply urgency. Overcome objections. Close the deal. There’s a script for all of it.

Good marketing requires:

• Deep understanding of your ideal client—not just demographics, but psychology
• Honest self-awareness about what makes you different (and what you’re not good at)
• Consistent messaging across months or years
• The discipline to be transparent even when it’s uncomfortable
• The patience to build trust over time instead of forcing quick wins

Most businesses want quick wins. They want to run an ad, get some traffic, close some deals. They don’t want to invest the time in truly understanding their ideal client, crafting messaging that resonates, and building a brand that consistently delivers on its promise.

But that’s exactly why most businesses need aggressive sales tactics. They’re compensating for weak marketing.

The businesses that invest in the hard work of great marketing? They rarely need to sell hard at all. People show up already convinced.

What to Do If Your Website Isn’t Building Trust

If you’re reading this and realizing your website might not be the foundation of good marketing that builds trust, here’s where to start:

1. Get brutally honest about your ideal client

Not who you wish was your ideal client. Who actually is. What keeps them up at night. What language they use when they talk about their problems. What would make them trust you immediately.

I’ve written extensively about how to define your ideal client, and it’s the foundation everything else builds on.

2. Audit every claim your website makes

Are you being specific or generic? Are you being transparent or vague? Are you answering real questions or dancing around hard topics?

Where you’re vague is where you’re creating the need for sales conversations to overcome skepticism.

3. Add FAQ sections that address real concerns

Not “What services do you offer?” type questions. Real ones. The ones people are thinking but not asking.

4. Make sure your brand feels consistent and trustworthy

Does your website look professional? Does your messaging sound like you? Does everything reinforce the same core promise? Does your brand align across every touch point?

5. Follow through on what your marketing promises

This is the most important part. If your website says you’re transparent, your sales conversations better be transparent. If your brand promises personal attention, your follow-up better deliver it.

Every broken promise creates the need for more aggressive sales next time because you’ve lost trust.

The Bottom Line: Build Trust, Don’t Force Decisions

I started this post talking about a frustrating sales rep at Verizon, but the lesson applies to every business—including yours.

When you do marketing well—when your website speaks directly to your ideal client’s needs, when your brand creates immediate trust, when every touchpoint reinforces your core promise—you barely need to “sell” at all.

People come to you ready. They’ve already decided you understand them. They just need clarity on next steps.

But when marketing is weak—when websites are vague, when brands are inconsistent, when transparency is lacking—businesses have to compensate with aggressive sales tactics. Urgency. Pressure. Manipulation.

And increasingly, people are seeing right through it.

The future belongs to businesses that invest in the harder work of building trust through good marketing. Businesses that know their ideal clients so well they can speak directly to their deepest concerns. Businesses that are transparent even when it’s uncomfortable. Businesses that follow through on every promise.

Is that harder than learning a few sales tactics? Absolutely.

Is it worth it? Ask yourself this: Would you rather spend your energy building genuine trust that compounds over time, or constantly hustling to close skeptical prospects who need convincing?

The choice is yours.

Ready to Build a Website That Does Good Marketing For You?

If you’re realizing your website isn’t building the trust you need—if it’s creating more work instead of less, if it’s forcing you into sales conversations where you’re starting from skepticism instead of trust—let’s talk.

We specialize in creating websites that speak directly to your ideal clients, build trust before you ever have a conversation, and position you as the obvious choice.

Websites with clear messaging, honest transparency, and brands that create immediate connection.

Book a discovery call, and let’s build you a website that is the foundation of your brand, and your great marketing.

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