November means a lot of things to me.
First, it’s officially really dark very early in the day. It’s cold. (Although this year the weather has been fabulously warm, sunny, and enjoyable, if only the sun could stay out later than 4:30 pm!) Winter is coming. Still, it’s the perfect time to pause, reflect, and give thanks for the little things, like a warm drink, a cozy blanket, or a rare sunny afternoon.
I’m not a fan of the cold, dark days of late autumn and winter, and often joke that we are now entering the most depressing time of the year. However, as the holiday season approaches, it’s also a time when we reflect and give thanks for the little things, like cozy nights indoors or the warmth of family gatherings.
However, that brings me to my second point. November marks a time when, as a society, we think more about other people. Ingrained in our heads is “Give Thanks” as Thanksgiving approaches. Give thanks for what you have today, because you don’t know what tomorrow will bring. Thanksgiving marks a time of celebrating with friends (Friendsgiving) and family, everything that we have to be thankful for. For them, their help, guidance, love, support, etc. I don’t think it’s coincidental that Thanksgiving falls when it does, at the darkest, coldest month of the year.
And, this year it seems like it falls just in time for us to take a step back and look at the world. To be thankful for where we live, our freedom, and our protection. And, to be thankful that we can help those who are in desperate need start over, make a new life for themselves and their family.
So, as you contemplate your life and give thanks for all you have this season, think about those who risk their lives to find safety for their families. Think about those who can’t celebrate the holiday with their family, because they are on the front lines protecting ours.
And, make sure you thank the people around you for the little things. The other day, we were out getting dinner, and I watched the woman who was serving food get ignored by the people in front of me. I thanked her when she handed me mine, and she gave me a huge smile and told me to have a great day. By saying 2 little words, by acknowledging someone who is doing something for you, it’s amazing how you can turn their day around, and how great it makes you feel.
So, as we prepare different ways to thank our clients for their business this year, thank our families for their constant love and support, and our friends for making life more enjoyable, we challenge you to reflect on the last year, and let the people around you know you’re thankful for them, and what they do. Even all the little things that often go unnoticed. Let them be noticed.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why is November a time to give thanks?
November is a time to pause and reflect on the things we are grateful for, as the season of Thanksgiving approaches. It’s a time to give thanks for the warmth of family gatherings, cozy nights indoors, and even the simple moments like a warm drink or a rare sunny afternoon. Giving thanks in November allows us to focus on the little things that bring joy during the colder, darker days of autumn and winter.
How can I give thanks for the little things this season?
Giving thanks doesn’t always require grand gestures. It can be as simple as thanking someone for their help, acknowledging the small acts of kindness in your daily life, or expressing gratitude for the moments of peace and comfort. This season, consider taking a moment each day to give thanks for the small blessings that make life meaningful.
How can we give thanks to those who risk their lives for others?
As we give thanks this season, it’s important to think about those who sacrifice their safety and well-being to protect others, such as military personnel, emergency responders, and those who serve on the front lines. Acknowledging their courage and dedication is a meaningful way to give thanks for the freedoms and safety we enjoy.
Why do we give thanks on Thanksgiving?
Thanksgiving is a time to reflect on the blessings of the past year and to give thanks for all that we have. It’s a tradition deeply rooted in gratitude for both the big and small aspects of life. This holiday encourages us to appreciate family, friends, and the support we receive from others, making it a perfect time to give thanks for the people and experiences that shape our lives.
How can I encourage others to give thanks this season?
Encouraging others to give thanks can be as simple as expressing your own gratitude. Share your appreciation with those around you, whether it’s through a thoughtful note, a heartfelt compliment, or just saying “thank you” for the everyday things people do. When we make an effort to give thanks, it can inspire others to do the same, creating a ripple effect of positivity and appreciation.
