“Happy Holidays.” What does that phrase even mean? It seems like such a cop-out. Why can’t we say Merry Christmas? Happy Hanukkah? As a Catholic I would never be offended if someone said Happy Hanukkah to me. That is their holiday, and what they celebrate, it’s part of their identity. And, if I said Merry Christmas to them, I’d hope they think the same thing.
I have friends who are Jewish, I even have family that is Jewish. I enjoy learning about their heritage and celebrating their holidays, and I’ve found many of them enjoy learning about our holidays, and celebrating them with us as well. So, where did “Happy Holidays” come from? Who are we protecting? Who are we trying not to offend?
As we celebrate another “holiday” season and are stressed with gift buying, year-end business, getting ready for new business in 2016, let’s not forget what our holidays are celebrated for. They aren’t celebrated for gifts. They’re celebrated for love and sacrifice. They’re celebrated to remember events from the past, so we can have strength and meaning in our own everyday life.
Here are 2 little boys I’m excited to celebrate Christmas with this year!
Frequently Asked Questions
What does “Happy Holidays” really mean?
“Happy Holidays” is a broad greeting that acknowledges the variety of celebrations during the winter season, including Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, and New Year’s.
Why do people say “Happy Holidays” instead of “Merry Christmas”?
Many use “Happy Holidays” to respectfully include people of different faiths and traditions. It’s not meant to diminish Christmas but to ensure everyone feels acknowledged during the festive season.
Can I still say “Merry Christmas” to people?
Yes, you absolutely can. Saying “Merry Christmas” is a heartfelt way to express your beliefs and traditions, just as others may say “Happy Hanukkah” or “Joyous Kwanzaa.”
What’s the true meaning behind the holidays, regardless of what we call them?
Whether it’s Christmas, Hanukkah, or another celebration, the core themes often include love, sacrifice, reflection, and unity—values that transcend specific traditions.
How can I respectfully celebrate the holidays with people of other faiths?
Share your traditions, be open to learning about theirs, and celebrate together. Many people enjoy learning about and honoring different customs, strengthening bonds and mutual respect.
